How To Find Love In 2010 (After Being Hurt Again)
How To Find Love In 2010
(After Being Hurt Again)
Love is supposed to be a good thing, but at times it can feel bad.
Sometimes, love can hurt so bad that you might wish you could die. At other times, love feels so good that you wish you could feel that way forever.
Love is something that we all need, even if we don’t like to admit it. Love is a powerful thing.
But, what do you do when you love someone so much, and they hurt you so bad?
“How do I go on and how could I ever open myself up again to someone, only get hurt like this again?????”
Easy…. you just do it.
I have learned in life that we all make mistakes, and mistakes help us grow. The more we grow…the more we learn. The more we learn…the more we can teach. With time, all wounds can be healed. We must learn to forgive and let go.
So you may ask, “How can I fall in love again, after being hurt???”
Step One: Cry
Seriously…Cry for days, weeks and even months if that‘s what it takes.
Get all of the sadness that this person caused you out of your system.
Write them letters, send them emails, leave them messages, but get it out…even if they don’t hear what you have to say.
Don’t walk around with all the weight of the pain they have caused upon your shoulders. It is can be very unhealthy, if you don’t let it go. It could cause you to bring it into your new relationship and mess up things with the next person. Take time to heal before you jump into the next relationship.
Step Two: Do something nice for yourself!
Take your self to the spa. Buy a new pair of shoes. Go and get your hair cut. Treat yourself the way you want someone to treat you. If you don’t treat yourself good, how do you expect another person to.
Step Three: Heal/Fix Yourself
Sometimes, we like to blame everyone else for our problems instead of taking responsibility for ourselves. No one owes us anything in life. If we have been dealt a bad hand, it is up to us to fix it. We can’t change the past, we can only fix ourselves for the future.