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- You’re having sex two times a day.
- You’re getting your hair and nails done ever week.
- Buying new outfits to look good for each other.
But as life changes for us, so do we change. And sometimes, change is not always good. I have a code I live by: “Don’t start something you can’t finish.” We, as people, get so busy in our lives that we forget what it took to get our significant other and make them happy. We don’t take the time out of the day to do what we used to. Maybe because we are tired of cleaning the house, cooking and running after the kids all day. Or maybe you had a hard day at work and all you want to do is watch a little TV and then go to bed. Whatever your case may be, it is so important to take time out of your busy life to do what you used to do if your relationship is worth it. So the first thing we have to do ladies, is
- Get the baby out the bed.
- Get rid of the granny panties.
- Put on some kind of “smell good” that he likes.
Sometimes women are selfish when it comes to our man. We can listen and serve a guy at work all day but when it comes to serving our man, we are like “he ain’t my father, he can’t tell me what to do”. It’s time to get rid of that stinking thinking. Sometimes you have to follow in order to lead. So the next time your husband comes home, rub his feet– even if they are ugly and rough. Give him a back and head massage. Find someone to keep the kids and pop out of the closet naked. Give him a happy ending from his hard day, even if you don’t get pleased the way you want to. It is not always about you. It may take a week are two for him to catch on, but he will. And men –you have to do the same. Do something nice for your wife –that she likes. Men try to please us by doing something they think we might like. And that is were you go wrong.