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How to bring Intimacy back into the bedroom?????

How to bring Intimacy back into the bedroom?????   When you hear the word Intimacy what do you think of?   The world English Dictionary say that intimacy means. A close personal relationship, a quiet and private atmosphere, a detailed knowledge resulting from a close or long association or study, a private and personal utterance or action– and the one I love the best –a sexual act or sexual intercourse.   And from my experience you need all of these things to have a great intimae relationship with your Significant other.   So you may ask, how do I bring back Intimacy into my relationship?   Have you ever heard the saying it is easy to fall in love but it is hard to stay in love? That is not always true. I think the reason we fall out of love is because we stop doing what we used to do.   In the beginning of a relationship, we are in what you call the Awe stage. When you do whatever it takes to impress that person.   

  • You’re having sex two times a day.
  • You’re getting your hair and nails done ever week.
  • Buying new outfits to look good for each other.

But as life changes for us, so do we change. And sometimes, change is not always good.   I have a code I live by: “Don’t start something you can’t finish.”   We, as people, get so busy in our lives that we forget what it took to get our significant other and make them happy.   We don’t take the time out of the day to do what we used to. Maybe because we are tired of cleaning the house, cooking and running after the kids all day.    Or maybe you had a hard day at work and all you want to do is watch a little TV and then go to bed.   Whatever your case may be, it is so important to take time out of your busy life to do what you used to do if your relationship is worth it.   So the first thing we have to do ladies, is    

  1. Get the baby out the bed.
  2. Get rid of the granny panties.
  3. Put on some kind of “smell good” that he likes.

Sometimes women are selfish when it comes to our man. We can listen and serve a guy at work all day but when it comes to serving our man, we are like “he ain’t my father, he can’t tell me what to do”.   It’s time to get rid of that stinking thinking.   Sometimes you have to follow in order to lead.   So the next time your husband comes home, rub his feet– even if they are ugly and rough.   Give him a back and head massage. Find someone to keep the kids and pop out of the closet naked. Give him a happy ending from his hard day, even if you don’t get pleased the way you want to.   It is not always about you. It may take a week are two for him to catch on, but he will. And men –you have to do the same.   Do something nice for your wife –that she likes.  Men try to please us by doing something they think we might like. And that is were you go wrong.   

So turn that bedroom back into that Sanctuary that it is supposed to be, by bring back the Intimacy for you and your partner.   Light some candles, play some soft music.   Bring back that old sexy life that you had when you first got together. 



November 8, 2009 at 6:09 am 1 comment

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Moe White

My blog is about Love, Life and Relationship Advice.

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